SIGNS OF A RAPE VICTIM AND SOLUTION FOR HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Issue on human violation rape is becoming hyper by the day. The cases of rape treated this year mush more than last or year before.
Like you know that on our blog we deal with relationship family lifestyle among others and something about this case is that the it like a poison the victim carries almost for life expect they go for me which many might decide to keep to themselves.
 Now when you go into a relationship with those people maybe friendship bases or romantically problem decided to appear. You need to know the signs of rape victims.


Anger issue - people that have passed through such traumatic experience tends to be hostile to people and general environs because the guilt and hurt still there especially when it about intimacy. People like that hate touch maybe hug pat shoulder rub or sort


Trust issues - : any form they do not trust anybody for anything because their personal space has been violated already the fear phobia is still very present. When they think or have a flash of the ugly event they angry violent and scared.


Phobias
A common psychological defense that is seen in rape survivors is the development of
fears and phobias specific to the circumstances of the rape, for example:
A fear of being in crowds.  - that reason why a grown up lady will decided not to stay where too much crowd are it feels like all the attention are on then which makes them feel uncomfortable
A fear of being left alone anywhere. - they feel unsecured unprotected they can't stay alone thinking not safe for them. People like that likes to have flat mates or roommate
A fear of men or women. (androphobia or gynophobia) they fear when people are trying to come closer to their life afraid so that such case might not repeat itself

A fear of going out at all, agoraphobia .-they prefer staying in door believe that their safe haven and also takes extra security measures

A fear of being touched, hapnophobia .- like I said earlier they feel other people touch irritating and dangerous to their spirit begin, to them it shows breaking of boundary.


Past -  they don't let talking about their past because they known that one way or the other the issue Will raise up again which they don't want to remember that ugly moment that brings rush of sadness ever again so they shut the door, keep the secret in the darkest part of their heart.
Solution - if your partner is a rape victim there is an urgent need to open up. And if you know you can't help wait because the process takes time better end the relationship but good to stay to help such person quickens the recovery rate.
NOTE :-
   ADVICE FOR ANY RAPE VICTIMS IS TO GO FOR PROPER COUNSELING

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