Key factors that paralyzed love 3 signs relationship about to hit the rock

When Love Fades: It could be that the rush of love is over and you realize who he
really is, and that you’re simply not compatible. Or, you may be triggered to withdraw
from her (icy intimacy); and yet the problem may be you and not her.
Love is a crazy state of being. It creates a field, not unlike those found in physics,
called the field of intimacy. Once in the field, your yearnings come to the surface, and
often with great intensity. This rush of hormones, longing and wish fulfillment gets
concretized in lovemaking and the imaginings of a future together.
Then, the field lightens and you see her for who she is. If you are lucky (and healthy)
you fall in love again; but this time with a real person. Too many lovers wake up
disappointed or criticised. In cases like this, you grow bored because you realize you
have little in common with him or her. This is a legitimate reason to consider calling
things off.

The Wounds of Childhood: It may be hard to believe, but growing tired of your partner
or spouse can have its roots in a damaged childhood. Perhaps, you didn’t receive the
attention you craved from your parents. You were invisible in their eyes and felt out of
favor, believing that your siblings were your parents' pride and joy. You protected
yourself by finding comfort in solitude.
Naturally, you carry resentment into relationships with others, including a lover. The
experience of intimacy along with your damaged childhood causes you to distance
yourself. You would rather be alone than risk being close to someone.
Or, you were idealized by adoring parents. The early idealization of love worked just
fine, but when she stopped seeing you as the center of her universe, you recoiled.
Instead of accepting a more adult relationship, you stew in outrage. Psychologically,
you distance yourself, and it is expressed as boredom. You ask yourself: why should I
bother with a partner who doesn’t meet all my needs?
Boredom can have many roots, and not all come from a damaged childhood.

Destructive Power Struggles: Think about couples that relentlessly engage in tiresome
power struggles. Do you and your partner argue too much?
Consider the following. Do you fight about money, or turning off the lights at night, or
who wakes up when the baby’s crying, or the way she dresses or his bad manners?
A relationship is a reverberating circuit and when a positive vibe flows, more positivity
comes about. I want to do things for you given how supported you make me feel. On,
the other hand, a negative feedback loop can kill a relationship. If you are not going to
do things for me, why should I put myself out for you?