7 tips to prevent infidelity in dating affecting relationship

Many relationship have hit the rock all because couples gives room for infidelity and the funny aspect is that they never see it coming. But gradually dive into it.

To really vaccinate your relationship against affairs, Glass recommends the following
guidelines. While some might find them too restrictive

7 Tips for Preventing Infidelity
1. Maintain appropriate walls and windows. Keep the windows opened at home.
Put up privacy walls with those who could threaten your marriage.
2. Recognize that work can be a danger zone. Don’t lunch or take private coffee
breaks with the same person all the time. When you travel with a coworker,
meet in public rooms, not a room with a bed.
3. Avoid emotional intimacy with attractive alternatives to your committed
relationship. Resist the desire to rescue an unhappy soul who pours his or her
heart out to you.
4. Protect your marriage by discussing relationship issues at home. If you do
need to talk to someone else about your marriage, be sure that person is a
friend of your marriage. If the friend disparages marriage, respond with
something positive about your own relationship.
5. Keep old flames from reigniting. If a former lover is coming to a class reunion,
invite your partner to come along. If you value your marriage, think twice about
having lunch alone with an old flame. (This may be unrealistic in the lesbian
community, as exes are so often part of one’s community and even friendship
circle.)
6. Don’t go over the line when online with Internet friends. Discuss your online
friendships with your partner and show him or her your e-mail if he or she is
interested. Invite your partner to join in correspondence so your Internet friends
won’t get any wrong ideas. Don’t exchange sexual fantasies online.
7. Make sure your social network is supportive of your marriage. Surround
yourself with friends who are happily married and who don’t believe in fooling
around.

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