DATING UNDERSTANDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Most people are afraid of getting hurt also afraid to be lonely (somebody like me) so they go for fantasy bond. This is am illusion they create which shows a sense of togetherness, a form of virtual intimacy or love there by protecting their emotions from hurt. This can also occurs in a relationship when the love have already exited, what remaining it just some pieces of it.
Signs of fantasy bond in a relationship are
* not mush eye contact : looking into your partner eyes it a sense of belonging and dedication it stimulate affection it shows a love dialect which is part of the -5-language-of-love. Which couples should speak. But when it missing then trouble is around the corner.
Break in communication : when couples don't have heart to heart talk again it means love is withdrawing gradually or your relationship is purely fantasy bond, which you need to check.
Less affection between both parties the spark is no more there in their relationship it shows that something is wrong. They don't connect.
There are many others ways to know if the relationship is actually fantasy bond when they are playing out roles in the relationship like it a stage play.
Where do fantasy bonds originate?
All children suffer emotional pain and anxiety in the process of growing up.
In families where the parents are unable to provide the love and affection
(Emotional hunger results from childhood background as well
as well as the direction and guidance necessary to meet their child’s needs
or to enhance his or her development, the child forms an illusion of being at
one with his or her parent or main caregiver as a substitute for what is
missing in the environment. The more seriously deprived or rejected we
were as children, the more we tend to create this fantasy and believe that
we need no one but ourselves. Later, as adults, we resist real closeness
and genuine love from other people and are reluctant to take another
chance in an intimate. But there a way you can break free just have to believe you can do it and stop wasting your time on things that are not real, have also onces engage in such relationship before with my ex. OMOWUMI is her name.
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Signs of fantasy bond in a relationship are
* not mush eye contact : looking into your partner eyes it a sense of belonging and dedication it stimulate affection it shows a love dialect which is part of the -5-language-of-love. Which couples should speak. But when it missing then trouble is around the corner.
Break in communication : when couples don't have heart to heart talk again it means love is withdrawing gradually or your relationship is purely fantasy bond, which you need to check.
Less affection between both parties the spark is no more there in their relationship it shows that something is wrong. They don't connect.
There are many others ways to know if the relationship is actually fantasy bond when they are playing out roles in the relationship like it a stage play.
Where do fantasy bonds originate?
All children suffer emotional pain and anxiety in the process of growing up.
In families where the parents are unable to provide the love and affection
(Emotional hunger results from childhood background as well
as well as the direction and guidance necessary to meet their child’s needs
or to enhance his or her development, the child forms an illusion of being at
one with his or her parent or main caregiver as a substitute for what is
missing in the environment. The more seriously deprived or rejected we
were as children, the more we tend to create this fantasy and believe that
we need no one but ourselves. Later, as adults, we resist real closeness
and genuine love from other people and are reluctant to take another
chance in an intimate. But there a way you can break free just have to believe you can do it and stop wasting your time on things that are not real, have also onces engage in such relationship before with my ex. OMOWUMI is her name.
PLEASE ALWAYS VIST, DROP YOUR COMMENTS AND PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO OUR BLOG.
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