DATING : UNDERSTANDING YOUR EMOTIONS IN RELATIONSHIP
Emotional hunger is what I called a pit or vacuum of feelings that can never be filled up or a burning desire that can never be quenched. It is due to the starvation of care, love and attention resulting from the person child hood which has indeed created am insatiable urge for attention.
It is a time of loneness and separation maybe from ones parents in the childhood which can never be accumulated for during adult relationship. People suffering from this cause tend to create a sense of affection and responsibilities for others which is not genuinely so. They tend to extend the hands of love and affection to others that to satisfy their hunger at the very end messing things up by been over protective or too choking. Emotional hunger parents take charge of the lives of their children virtually living their lives for them. In many ways which have incapacitated these children and Rob them of their free will to choose maybe carer wise relationship or in some decisions making.
They paint the world a dangerous place for their children therefore creating a need for their dependency. They live a life with anxiousness or preoccupied attachment (a topic will be discussing two days time on our blog, kindly visit regularly)
So any child raised or brought up with such mentality will crave for love and attention when he grows older even maybe end up in abusive relationship. Their parents hide them from the reality of lives, but if you are someone like that you can always come out of the shell your background don't have to be the Lord over your life.
It is a time of loneness and separation maybe from ones parents in the childhood which can never be accumulated for during adult relationship. People suffering from this cause tend to create a sense of affection and responsibilities for others which is not genuinely so. They tend to extend the hands of love and affection to others that to satisfy their hunger at the very end messing things up by been over protective or too choking. Emotional hunger parents take charge of the lives of their children virtually living their lives for them. In many ways which have incapacitated these children and Rob them of their free will to choose maybe carer wise relationship or in some decisions making.
They paint the world a dangerous place for their children therefore creating a need for their dependency. They live a life with anxiousness or preoccupied attachment (a topic will be discussing two days time on our blog, kindly visit regularly)
So any child raised or brought up with such mentality will crave for love and attention when he grows older even maybe end up in abusive relationship. Their parents hide them from the reality of lives, but if you are someone like that you can always come out of the shell your background don't have to be the Lord over your life.
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