5 Power Selfpity Have On Any Relationship

At one point in time of our life we feel lost dry and worthless which result in self pity.self pity is the art wallowing in the river of mistery,we lost track of time distracted by what happening all around loosing total focus on life. Below are what i called claws of selfpity.
1) TIME WASTER-: Self pity first job is waste lots of time which can NEVER be recovered again more reason we all have to be sensitive to what happening to us.

2)NOT IMP ROVING-:  the last thing you can work on is to improve because you won't see any reason to move . you are literally given up on the life you should move forward.

3)CANT FIGHT NEGATIVE VIBE-: when you self pitying your self it rob you the chance to deal with your problems, of course when you are busy blaming your self how will u be able to concentrate and fight for your freedom.

4)OVER LOOK THE GOOD OLD DAYS-: when you are facing self pity you tends to concntrate all your energies on negativity of life forgetting the fact that you still ALIVE, which you should be fighting for.

5)HARD TIMES IN RELATIONSHIP-: I could remembered when my gf told me i complain alot the negative energy was wearing off on her.no body likes to have anything do with selfpited person,because the negativism and vibe killer is there.

What i will advice is just deal with what ever that is making you feel like that, not easy but you have no choice .the early and quickly you deal with it the better for you to move forward.